The second day of the cruise was as lovely as the first. We stopped at a Kamu village...very poor. My only point of comparison is a Karen village in Thailand and I must say this was much poorer. I had nothing to give the children, so donated to the school.
The cruise had nine passengers -- two groups of four--Russians and Germans. I thought perhaps someone would take me under their wing, but instead I was solo the entire time--all meals ALONE! It was a good experience I guess. I am learning very well how to eat ALONE at a restaurant.
Last night at the Pakbeng lodge, I had cocktails with a group of French people who were on a tour of Laos. They were super nice! However, again, I dined ALONE at this relatively posh restaurant with courses served one at a time. It was all I could do to wait for all the courses to be served. But again, this is good practice
I've met many long-term travelers on this trip, which is inspirational. I definitely want to do a three-month trip when I retire, while I am still healthy enough to deal with a difficult place.
Among those I've met:
1) German woman traveling alone for four months
2) two swiss ladies, my age, traveling together for 6 months
3) a brit guy traveling alone for 3 months
4) a Swiss (French) woman, 40, traveling for 6 months
5) A Quebecoise couple traveling for 4 months (and telling me about Yunnan China!)
I don't know if I have what it takes to travel alone for months... I am told the internet makes it all possible, and certainly being able to install a simm crd from each country simplifies the world.
I had planned to stay three more days, but clipped my plans. I was going to do the one-night Gibbon Experience, but when I went to book, the lady told me I was too old. Well, not in so many words, but she said the age range was 12-50, and me at 65 am over the age limit. She said that it is a two mile climb up a mountain. Well, wait, she said it was a two-hour climb, which could be only a kilometer. Given that I have no recent experience climbing mountains, and given that everyone else there was in their twenties, I backed down. I am not proud of it, but then I am a pretty risk-averse person. There is another three-day program that does not involve the steep climb, but I was unwilling to forego Thailand and wait around in Huay Xai three more days. Also, the program is extremely expensive for the region ($200 for one night!) so I hesitated to throw that away in the event I couldn't make the climb.
Perhaps next time...after or before I visit the elephant camp, which is close by.
On a note of humor, when I got back to my hotel, the receptionist was laughing that they turned me away for being too old. He said, "you in good shape! I saw you walking up hill really fast!" He also said he had seen them take people much worse off than me. But aah, I hate to hold anyone up.
On my last morning in Laos, I contemplate this country. I would definitely come back to see more. It is very poor, but as a result, relatively unspoiled. Oh, I don't mention the garbage in the Mekong -- tons of it, or the trash heaps in the backyards of people whose houses back the Mekong.
The country is not that well set up for tourism, which is part of its charm. There are surprises! Vietnam was so set up...mid-level hotels would almost qualify as luxury in the states with amazing service. For example, our hotel sent someone to actually get on the train with us to make sure we found our berths...and then kicked out a squatter! In Laos, if they had a train (??) we would have been on our own.
One reason I disliked my hotel in Luang Prabang was a somewhat surly attitude by the management. Only one person spoke English, but she was so reserved.
I did hear a few other tourists mention this reserve...it must be a cultural personality trait, or perhaps the result of poverty or Buddhism? One woman I met (Swiss French, 40, traveling alone six months) was particularly struck by this and said the people in Nepal were amazing and always giving giant smiles. I hope to get there next trip.
One more thing: I don't really like Laotian food as much as Vietnamese and Thai. After Vietnam, disappointing. I am sure I have not tried the signature dishes that would change my mind. I do have the cookbook and will try to see if I can make something to enjoy when I get home.